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Fall Tablescape and Soup is On!
Fall is definitely coming…in fact, in some parts of the country, it is here!
I am so excited because I love Fall/Autumn!…and even though we don’t have drastic changes in our Seasons here in Florida, we still have Seasonal changes.
The leaves that have fallen off of my shady lady Olive tree tells me each day, that Fall is getting nearer and nearer.
I have another confession to make….
I have been playing with my dishes again folks…I love tablescapes, as you know… and I have set up a Fall Tablescape, which is perfect for soup on a chilly day.
I found these wonderful white pumpkin soup bowls and tureen with ladle on line a few months ago and I fell in love with them.
They almost match a set of three pumpkins that I had gotten online at QVC several years before. You can see the white glazed graduated sized pumpkins in last years Thanksgiving tablescape Thanksgiving Dinners and Carving The Bird
A few weeks ago, I saw these adorable deer salad plates on the Pier 1 website. I had to smile at the 4 pretty little birds nestled in the antlers…well, I just had to give it up and go with the flow and I ordered them. And when they arrived, I couldn’t keep from smiling. Aren’t they the cutest ever?
I placed the deer salad plates on my Spode Woodland dinner plates. You may remember I used the dinner plates and matching salad plates in the tablescape Changing of the Guard/Seasons!
The flatware is so unique…they are bronze colored and shaped like twigs, which remind me of Fall.
I LOVE IT!!!
AND…the napkins have a cute little orange leaf embroidered in the corner and I used napkin rings in the shape of deer antlers that I also found at Pier 1….the good news is they were on sale!
As usual, at the end of this post, I will list the source of my Fall tablescape for this week.
I am sure you noticed that I just could not cover up the sweet deer’s head with the soup tureen. So the soup tureen sits a bit off kilter to the side of the dinner plate.
I used rattan chargers which I think which grounds the tablescape and brings the natural woodland theme together.
Along with the Autumn/Fall leaves, I added a pretty Fall ribbon that I casually wove in and among the Fall leaves.
And being from the Midwest….I also had to add a few sunflowers…can’t forget my Kansas roots.
It was beginning to get dark, so I thought you might like to see the candles lit….I really think candles set the mood, don’t they?
So tell me, my dear readers, are you ready for all the Fall colors and leaves and fireplaces and pumpkins and apples and…..
Well, you get the picture!
Oh, and the soup is on….Hot Creamy Clam Chowder! Recipe to follow!
Rattan Chargers: Hobby Lobby, many years ago
Glasses: Pier 1, about 15 years ago (I used to have a set of 12, but the Captain broke one right after we met) hahaha!, I’ll never forget because I had just said to him that I couldn’t find anymore of them!
Flatware: Pier 1
Dinner plates: Spode Woodland Pattern
Deer Salad plates: Pier 1, Alexander Pattern, 2 weeks ago
Napkins: Too long ago to remember 🙁
Napkin Rings: Pier 1, a couple weeks ago
Pumpkin Soup Tureen w/ladle and individual soup tureens: Temptations stoneware
Candle Holders: Gift from BFF about 10 years ago
Autumn Ribbon: Dollar store, this month
Autumn leaves: Hobby Lobby, several years ago
I am not sure where it comes from…but I have always been a strong person, a decisive person.
I am not talking about strength like body building strength, but an inner strength, which over the years I have to admit has gotten me into a bit of hot water with husband and children when I have stood my ground so to speak.
I am the one in the crowd who sees an emergency and jumps into action while many stand around in shock.
I am the one standing in the waiting line at the beauty counter of Walgreens who is asked by a complete stranger…”which color of nail polish do you think would look the best?, the pink or coral?”
AND I am the one at Macy’s looking at men’s ties when a millennial young man holds up two ties near his face and asks…
“The blue”….. I blurted out as I looked up from the array of ties in front of me.
The sandy haired young man with the steel blue eyes tossed the gray tie back on the table and rushed off to the check-out, calling “thanks” over his shoulder.
As I picked up the gray tie he had tossed and refolded it and placed it in it’s place at the table, I began to think about why I chose the blue tie over the gray tie for this stranger.
The gray tie was very nice and I didn’t even ask the young man what color shirt or slacks or anything else that might have been pertinent to giving an informative answer.
No,…. I just knew the navy blue tie was the right tie for him with his coloring and hair. I don’t even know for what occasion the lad needed the tie…but I sensed an urgency…a need for affirmative action and right now, no long debate.
It has always been that way for me, and I have just accepted the fact that evidently, I am here to help people.
But then we all are, aren’t we? I’m certainly not an expert in any given field, but apparently I seem authoritative to some, at least enough so that I am asked my opinion, frequently. And for 10 seconds at the tie table in Macy’s…a young stranger needed a word of encouragement!
However, as I left the tie table, I came up with a different scenario….maybe, it isn’t my knowledge or expertise, but my willingness, to project an “open” feeling to those round about me. Shouldn’t we all be that way? Shouldn’t we all be “open” to give that encouraging word or affirmative support to those in need?
It is true, we all lead busy lives and we may want to shy away when asked our opinions…but I ask you what if that smile or that encouraging word is just what that person needs today?
Go for it….
You can do it….
You don’t know if you don’t try…
What is the worst that can happen….?
It is never too late…
Sometimes, our friends (or strangers) might be feeling a bit timid and need someone to speak the truth to them because they can’t see the forest for the trees. Perhaps they are just too close to their situation …..whether it is trivial or something far deeper in their lives.
Perhaps all they need is that little nudge in the right direction….to help them choose the blue tie over the gray tie.
Each one of us has a cross to bear, and as Christopher Robin said to Pooh bear…. “always remember that you’re braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”
You, too my friend…… “are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think”!
You are amazing! You’ve got this….whatever it is!
Lazy Summer Days, Raindrops and Sunflowers!
Yes, it is still Summer but the days are waning fast….and I think I have a cute tablescape to illustrate just that.
I am seeing more and more signs of late summer and a slow ease into Fall!
Here in Florida, we are still getting the daily raindrop or two, usually in the late afternoon. What a heavenly respite from the heat of the sun…as the cool breezes that accompany the rain gently caress my skin, while moving about tendrils of my hair that has escaped my messy bun.
My dear readers…think O.J. Simpson…Perry Mason and 12 Angry Men!
Yesterday, I was in a courtroom all day long.
You see, a trial started in a very high profile (defendant accused of murdering his wife) case and I, and 67 others had been summoned to jury selection. There were only 8 jurors chosen after a very, very long day of questioning by the judge, the lawyers for the prosecution and lawyers for the defense.
During this whole process, the defendant was sitting at the defense table and I couldn’t help but look at him and study his reaction or non-reaction to all the questioning.
My dear readers…..have you ever had something happen or words said to you that all of a sudden a light bulb go off and you say to yourself,…..
“yes, I needed that” …..or “yes, I got the message”…or in this particular case for me…..“Yes, I completely agree and I am glad someone else “gets it” too!” It is the task of making one’s bed every day.
What I am about to talk about is certainly not revolutionary….however, it is a habit that can become lax if one does not stay on top of it…no pun intended, or maybe there is.
My dear readers….it is that time of year when the children have returned to school and suddenly summer seems to be making room for the wonderful crispness of Fall.
There hasn’t really been a gentle slide towards the impending autumn season; rather it was thrust on us sorta in the blink of an eye. At least for me, the Summer months have just flown by.
Several years ago, I wrote this popular post on “Diner Speak” and I decided to repost it with a few additions as you, my readers have added a few descriptions that you remembered from your past. So thank you for that.
Yes, these were the days of poodle skirts, Cherry Phosphates, and Leave It To Beaver!
So for a bit of nostalgia, please read on:
Yellow Blanket on a Dead Cow and Make It Cry!
Let me explain, before you think I have gone over the edge….:)!
Every now and again, the Captain and I go to a small Diner here in the Cape and if we are sitting close enough to the kitchen, we can hear the communication between the wait staff and the cooks as food orders are “put in”. It reminds me of a day gone by as these days, customer orders are almost all electronic…which sometimes isn’t necessarily a more efficient way…. and it certainly is less colorful as the Older Diner’s way of communicating.
No, I don’t mean the Diner person is old…I mean the Mom and Pop Diner is most likely non-existent these days. They have been replaced with widgets, gadgets, and all kinds of modern equipment to make your dining experience one you won’t forget. More on that… further down this post. 🙁
If you would like to see my review of this Diner…click Lost in the 50’s Tonight!
My Mother and Father bought a small cafe in an even smaller town shortly after I was married. I wasn’t there every day, but I came to know through my Mother, … “Diner Speak” …from her days as a waitress at the famous Mulbach Hotel and Cafe in Kansas City. Mother was quite the adventurous young lady as she set off for the big city 400 miles away… right out of high school. She wanted to see how the sights and sounds differed from the place where she was born… (Niles, Kansas), population at that time about 25 in the town and perhaps 25 farmers living all around the town. (But that is another post.) I loved hearing Mom spout off “Diner Speak” and explaining to me the actual meaning.
At first I thought the “Diner speak” was a shorter version of the actual food names ordered through the small window to the cook, but as she explained…it certainly was not faster to call out the order of “Adam and Eve on a raft and wreck ’em” to calling out “two eggs scrambled on toast”!. However, it was a way for the “family” of wait staff and cooks to define themselves,…to be different in a community of niches.
Mom always justified the “Diner Speak” with terms like… “Well, Longshoreman speak a language of their own.” emphasis on the word their.
I was always puzzled by the comparison because we were as landlocked as one could be…. situated in the middle of the United States with the closest water being the narrow Smokey Hill River! Perhaps these niches of a special language used to keep insiders in and outsiders out, have failed to survive in this day of political correctness. I don’t know; but what I do know is I enjoy hearing the “Diner Speak” and below I have listed a few of the many food descriptions that my Mom taught me, as well as a few more.
Below are a few of my favorites, and I am sure you know some of these and can add a few of your own.
And yes, that was my meal one morning at our little Diner! Hey, I did some cardio afterwards! Well, if I didn’t, I meant to.
Let’s proceed shall we?
Burn one, drag it through the garden and put a rose on it: Hamburger with lettuce, tomato and onion.
Two Cows, make them cry: Two hamburgers with onions
Firehouse it: Add chili
Hot Blonde in the sand: coffee with cream and sugar
Paint a bow wow red: Hot dog with ketchup
Yellow Paint: Mustard
Red Paint: Ketchup
Put out the lights and cry: Liver and onions
Noah’s boy on dough: Ham sandwich
Put legs on it: A take out item
Mouse Trap: Grilled Cheese Sandwich
Hold the grass or keep off the grass: A sandwich without lettuce
One on the City: a glass of water
Burn the British: English Muffin
A spot with a twist: cup of tea with lemon
Drag Wimpy through Wisconsin: Hamburger with cheese
Flop two, over hard: Two eggs with the yolks hard
Fry two and let the sun shine: Two eggs sunny side up or eggs which have not been flipped over.
Eve with a moldy lid: Apple pie with cheese
Blowout Patches with Axle Grease and Vermont: Pancakes with butter and syrup
Burn one with frog sticks: Hamburger and fries
Add Hail to the MD: put ice in the Dr. Pepper.
First Lady with Idaho Cakes in the alley: Ribs with Hash brown Patties on the side.
Stretch Atlanta and paint it red: Large coke with a cherry
Sweep the kitchen: Hash
Bossy in a bowl: Beef stew
All Hot, Tip Toe through Wisconsin: Baked Potato with cheese sprinkled on top
Battle Creek in a bowl: Corn Flakes in a bowl
Torpedo it: Add a banana
Baled Hay: Shreaded Wheat
Dough well done with cow to cover: Buttered Toast
Biddy Board: French toast
Double Black Cow: Double thick shake
Cowboy with Spurs: Western Omelet with potatoes
Drown the Kids: Boiled Eggs
Foreign Entanglements: spaghetti
Guess Water: Soup
Mama on a Raft: Marmalade on toast
On the Hoof: rare meat
Squeeze: Orange juice
Ice and throw it in the mud: Ice cream with chocolate syrup.
Whiskey Down with Skid Grease: Rye toast with butter
Brown Down: Wheat Toast
Give It Wings: To serve quickly
In case you haven’t figured out what Yellow Blanket on a Dead Cow and Make It Cry ……?
Cheese Burger with onions! But you had that all figured out didn’t you?
And as far as the electronic age being better or faster in the food ordering world…the Captain and I were eating at Richee B’s one evening and we waited and waited for our food. Finally, we asked the server (guess you can’t call them waitresses anymore) if there was a problem and she replied.
“No, everything is ok. My IPad lost it’s “connect” and your order didn’t go through!”
“So is it connected now?” I ask with tummy rumbling.
“No, but I will go tell the cooks to start your order.”
At that point I wanted to yell out to the cooks in the kitchen….Yellow Blanket on a Dead Cow, Give It wings and Make It Cry!… cause I never like to cry alone!
As a sidenote….since this was first posted, both the Starlight Diner and Richee B’s have gone out of business.
Times have changed…and so have we.
I have a new addition to My Secret Garden since I last posted about my “Potager”…and it is a wash tub! A wash tub in the Garden? Yep! but let’s go back just a bit.
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